You Can Still Have a Great Story!

They may have said you are not good enough; so what! They may have said you are too broken to be fixed; so what!! They may have said your life is a disaster going somewhere to happen, so what!!! People who don’t know your story will always criticize your past chapters, but it’s not about what they think of you, it’s rather about what you choose to BELIEVE of yourself.

If you believe you are no good then you are no good, if you believe your life is no use then it is no use. You can sit down there and believe in what peoples opinion have labelled you and allow your life to be defined by the mistakes of your past or you can decide to move your life forward and become better! You may have done all they said you did, but you are definitely not who they say you are; Never trust in what peoples opinion label you; Never trust in what your past says you can’t be.

A “bad chapter” doesn’t mean you can’t have a great story! It is not about how strong you start but how well you finish. You may have started broken, you may have started shattered, you may have started with lots of mistakes some of which the very thoughts of them makes your heart bleed, others you ain’t even proud to talk about; but here’s the thing, You must never let the mistakes of the past keep you from becoming better.

Regardless of how bad your past may have been, your future can still be better. Do not let who you used to be, make you walk away from who you can become; You may not yet be that “perfect” person you always desired to be but you still need to fall in love with the journey of becoming better. Don’t let your past mistakes keep you in bondage; Don’t let your past mistakes keep you from having a great story; Regardless of how worthless you think your life may be, GOD can still use you; You can never be too broken for Him to fix. He creates “perfect purposes” out of “imperfect pasts”. Give it all to Him. Your life might not be perfect, but your life is sure worth it.

 

“You are Perfect”

“You are Perfect” Despite how flawed you think you are; Despite what opinions have told you; Despite how many mistakes you may have made. It still doesn’t change the fact that “you are perfect”.

Perfection isn’t living a mistake free life, it’s understanding that your mistakes was you going through the process of becoming better! failure doesn’t mean it won’t work, it just means there’s a better way to make it happen.

My struggles produced my success, if it wasn’t for my “falls”, I wouldn’t be able to stand strong today. Failure is an opportunity for growth, you will never learn the importance of making a good shot, if you didn’t miss a few rounds. just because you hit some brick walls on your way to the top doesn’t mean you have come to the end of the road…..there will always be a leading path on the other side of that wall, you just got to be willing to go through it, to get to it. don’t let the struggles break you, don’t let the mistakes weigh you down, don’t let the failures hold you back.

You may have made a mistake, but don’t let the mistake make you, you may have fallen short, but don’t let falling turn into dying, you may have experienced defeat, but don’t make a permanent decision out of temporary situation!

Let this be the day you start believing again; Let this day be the day you decide to put God in the driving sit of your life, because, Nobody knows your heart, your circumstance, your past, your relationship, your struggle, your pain, your hopes, your dreams, your purpose, your flaws, your failures, your mistakes and your future like God! Anything under HIS control can never be out of control!

 

Dear Single Guys 1

(1)Dear Single Guys, There’s plenty good women out there, just don’t let your “preference” make you blind towards the one your heart truly needs. #BeWise!

(2) Dear Single Guys, If you are going to pursue a woman’s heart, be sure you are prepared to stay loyal to it. #LoyaltyCounts!

(3)Dear Single Guys, True strength is being able to admit you are weak; Don’t drown in your struggles, simply because you want to save your image and prove a point to her #AlwaysBeYourself!

(4) Dear Single Guys, before you say there are no “good women” be sure you are a “good man” the problem most times could be “you” and not “them” #CheckYourself

(5) Dear Single Guys, Don’t give some other guy the opportunity to love what you took for granted; Appreciate her before she finds someone else who will #SeemsLikeCommonSense

(6)Dear Single Guys, a relationship is between you and the person you are with; Stop letting outsiders plant their opinions in something they are not involved in; Focus on the person you are with, not the people trying to tear you apart!#AWordForTheWise!

(7) Dear Single Guys, breaking her heart is deeper than you think, it destroys her outlook on love and makes it hard for her to find trust in any future relationship; #NobodyDeservesThat!

(8)Dear Single Guys, You can’t keep living like you are single and expect to have a successful relationship; Nobody deserves to have their heart played with. #ManUp!

(9)Dear Single Guys, Every Lady deserves a man who can make her heart forget it was ever broken; Becoming that guy means that you are ready to love her beyond words, correct her in love and help her become better #CanYouBeThatGuy?

(10)Dear Single Guys, A relationship means you come together to make each other better. It’s not all about you, and it’s not all about them. Its all about the relationship. Make sure they can find their biggest fan in you, and you can find yours in them

(11)Dear Single Guys, treat her like you are still trying to win her, and that’s how you’ll never lose her. A real man will remind his woman daily why she fell in love with him

(12) Dear Single Guys, lies help no one, so mean what you say; Don’t say “I love you” if you don’t mean it; Don’t say “I understand” if you have no clue; Don’t say “I’m sorry” if you’re not; Don’t say “I’ll never leave” if you plan to walk away. #TimeToGetReal!

 

Dear Single Ladies 2

(1)Dear Single Ladies, Stop giving your heart and body to everyone; Just because they tell you the right things doesn’t make them the right one. Everybody doesn’t deserve you!

(2)Dear Single Ladies, You will never find the RIGHT person if you never let go of the WRONG one. #BeSmart!

(3)Dear Single Ladies, Stop advertising yourself as wholesale when your value should be something that can’t be bought
#ValueYourself!

(4)Dear Single Ladies, relationSHIPS sink when you invite people on a journey that’s only made for TWO #BeWise!

(5)Dear Single Ladies, a man will treat you according to the “messages” you put out; If you exude sex, you will attract men who want that from you, If you exude self respect, you will attract the type of men who respect women. You will always attract what you exude. #WhatDoYouExude?

(6)Dear Single Ladies, When it’s REAL….you don’t get a promise, you get a commitment #BeWise

(7)Dear Single Ladies, Never let your thirst cause your perception to mis-label someone’s intention; Learn how to take a compliment without creating SOMETHING in your mind that doesn’t exist

(8)Dear Single Ladies, Carrying yourself with no respect will always get you attention from the people who aren’t meant to love you! #RespectYourself!

(9)Dear Single Ladies, If you carry bricks from your past relationships into a new one, you will always end up building the same house #YouAreNotYourPast!

(10)Dear Single Ladies, No relationship is worth losing your character and integrity. If you can’t have you, they can’t either!

(11)Dear Single Ladies, Love isn’t untrue, Love doesn’t hurt, Love doesn’t lie; Love is LOYAL, honest and pure. Stop settling for less than what your heart deserves #GetYourWorth!

(12)Dear Single Ladies, Never make excuses for someone who disrespects you. Who they are or what they do isn’t a pass to treat you like trash.

(13)Dear Single Ladies, Stop making yourself so available. There’s nothing special about being easy access #WiseUp!

(14)Dear Single Ladies, There’s nothing like a woman who has a honest lip, LOVES GOD, has a pure heart, walks in the heels of confidence and isn’t afraid of her flaws!!! #DoesThisDescribeYou?

 

Dear Single Ladies 1

(1) Dear Single Ladies, when you date a man’s checkbook you will always get treated like the things the checkbook buys! And Once you get old, you get replaced #DateSmart!

(2)Dear Single ladies, the heart that is meant to love you will always respect your past, believe in your future and appreciate you for who you are today.

(3) Dear Single Ladies, A relationship without trust is like a car without gas, you can stay in it as long as you want but it won’t go anywhere. #Truth!

(4)Dear Single Ladies, Love is too big to be chained by secrets, if they can’t be truly open with you then its safe to walk away!

(5) Dear Single Ladies, Just because they can’t see your value, doesn’t mean you aren’t valuable; Some people are just blind to true worth and beauty. Don’t let no one talk you down!

(6) Dear Single Ladies, Don’t be some guys downtime, spare time, part time or sometime. If they can’t be there for you all of the time, then stop giving them all of yours!!! #SeemsLikeCommonSense

(7)Dear Single Ladies, You set the standard for your life. You can either allow yourself to be the someone’s Option or someone’s Privilege; The choice is entirely up to you! #BeWise!

(8)Dear Single Ladies, The heart that’s meant to love you will care more about what they can give to you than what they can take from you. True love isn’t selfish #BeSmart!

(9)Dear Single Ladies! Before you say there are “no good men” out there, just make sure you are a “good woman” because, you will always attract the lifestyle you live

(10) Dear Single Ladies,Stop settling for been treated like a “Stand by” when your heart deserves to be treated like a “First class”. #WiseUp

(11) Dear Single Ladies, Stop ignoring how they treat you just. because your are so in love with who they could be #GrowUp

(12) Dear Single Ladies, A real woman will always trust her man, believe in herself, and never let the opinions of others control her thoughts #TrueWisdom